trans-gendered 7yr old boy

hey ladies so a friend of mine watched an oprah show a couple of days ago regarding a seven year old trasgenered boy:
"Ok so teh topic is about transgenders... So iw as watching Oprah the other day and there was this story about a 7 year old boy that decided when he was 3 that he wasnt supposed to be a born a boy he was supposed to be a girl. So his parents decided that they were going to take him seriously and for the last 4 years have changed his name to from Harry to Haley and dress him and address him as a girl. So now he is a she and everyone address him as she. Now i want to know from you ladies where you stand on this? I know its a free world and we can do as we please but I just feel as a parent we are supposed to guide our children down the right direction, no? This CHILD is 7 years old! how does he know what the difference is? I was very saddened with the episode because i felt that the parents didnt try hard enough to steer their son in the right direction. Mind you we obviously dont know what excatly went down all these years and how it has affected them but do i feel they could have done things differently? Yes! They could find a diff way to address the situation.

Now correct me if im wrong and tell me if im being closed minded or just plain judgemental but as a mother i just feel it is unfair to assume that 3year old would know what the consequences of his/her actions are. This is a lifetime of therapy for this child when he enters the real world and is bullied. 
That was my rant let me know what you think ladies! would be nice to hear what others think...:)"


so ladies let us know your take on this topic:)

how retain moisture in your hair

So my friend Phil asked me what exactly we can do to retain moisture in our hair especially during the winter time.

• regular oil treatment withcholesterol does wonders to your hair in terms of keeping it oily.
• using petroleum in it at least twice a week is very good to.
• if you dont like your hair being over oily then you can spray braid sheen or spray on a daily bases to retain the moisture.

dandruff

a couple of days ago one of my frtiends was concerned by the amount of dandruff in her hair.
i would like to tell you guys that dandruff is a good sign. dandruff is dead hair cells and the more of them you have the faster your hair is growing. it is important though to remove the dandruff regularly and the best way to do that is to comb your sculp softly so that the dandruff rises and then wash your hair because if you dont the dandruff will still be there even though you have shampooed your hair and it is clean.
for those with excess dandruff i would recommend you wash your hair with head and shoulders. it really works for me and my mom.

dizzo's jam for the day

so dizzo bra is really feeling this jam, so am i to be truthful so lets relax after some angry rihanna to jessie something.

philly's jam for the day!

lol i know its a pretty random jam but today was feeling kinda random, this song will be my "repeat song" for the next couple of weeks until sumbody gets me a new one:)

thank you

hey guys
wanna thank you to those who have joined for the support :)
every monday i will be posting a topic and we can discuss in depth and so i was gonna ask if any of you had suggestions over which topic we should discuss this week. i will post videos or articles regarding that topic. im excited to learn new things from you guys!

Hair tips and advice

Hi everyone my name is Shortyk and i love doing hair. my passion is doing hair and discussing better ways of keeping our hair healthy and growing. of course as a hair dresser im also a person people confide in so as we discuss hair we can discuss things we face daily, fears we have and share joyous moments together! so come on ladies lets blog about one the most important things in our lives... hair!!!!