Course hair remedy: shea butter

ok there is a random part in the video but i see were she is going with the shea butter thing.

Course hair

hey guys so a friend of ours is finding it hard to maintain her hair because its course. here is what she had to say:
"I have HARD maShona-type hair and I've tried everything i can think of to make it softer and less dry than it currently is. 

I want to hear from people who have the same problem what they have used to keep their hair from turning into one big dry mess.

Also what products are everyone using?!"
so guys please let us know what you are using to keep your hair soft:)